Tuesday, July 14, 2009

marriage and religion

A very honest and amazingly well-written post about marriage (and some of my fears about it).

7 comments:

Alex J! said...

That was a really interesting read, especially for me while I'm dating someone who doesn't share my religious beliefs.

Peter said...

What a bittersweet story.

mattdunn said...
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Anonymous said...

What are some of your fears about marriage?

jchan985 said...

mostly the same fears I think I have about relationships - that even if I do find someone who I mesh well with, that things will change and upset things.

For example, I sometimes worry about a partner leaving me because of my beliefs and the direction in which they're going. This isn't to say the fear is sound - I think a lot of this is built on personal issues, which previous experiences have exacerbated.

David Chan said...

This was a really good lunch-break read. I can see this happening to me in the future...but on a much different scale...

Future Partner: What the hell?!?! You're leaving me because I believe in exercise?!

...haha anyways, thanks for posting it. It was great.

jchan985 said...

Hah, I could totally see that, David. Alternatively...

Girl: I believe in you, David!
David: Oh, but I believe in original sin and the depravity of man. We need to break up.